Tuesday, 3 September 2013

After Every Rainfall There's A Sunshine :)

Hope all my honey pies are having fun and enjoying life =]

If not then well, maybe I can help you,
Heart Break?
Complicated Job?
Complicated Life?
Love Problems?
Alone And Depressed?

Yes, everyone does suffer from these stuffs and situations right?

I have also been in some these kinda situations. Some fail and lose hope all of a sudden while some stays strong and moves on. Like I always say life is always not easy so why seek for easy way or an easy life every time?????.......I've been seeing people trying to kill themselves, lose hope and just wanna escape from the reality. But at the end the truth is we become who we think we are, instead of being strong we think we are the ones who are not perfect and a loser so just 'STOP' thinking that, nobody's perfect mate.


True thing isn't it, I know its not easy to move on but be happy with whatever you have and whatever happens because after all those heart breaks, back stabbing, betrayal, you learn more and later on suffer less. Without these things you cannot be strong enough, you know why all those heart-break and frustration brings, later on you will eventually learn some how, realize that whatever happened, happened for good :)

Don't let your smile go away just because your situation is not good.Have faith in God, believe in God and yourself and never lose your hope.


Every relationship is complicated and so is friendship. Personally saying my own close friends have betrayed me, I've also been taken for granted. Some just come around talk to me and at the end its just for their work and later on they are vanished somewhere until I meet them next time coming up again for their work or when they need me. My friends have betrayed me and back stabbed me too. My trust has been broken a lot of times. I exactly know that feeling, but at the end I thank those people you know why? because without those heart-breaking stuffs, I wouldn't be who I am today, nowadays I expect less, don't trust people like before and I always have and keep my doubts. People come and go, some gonna stay with you till the end while some just leaves their foot prints. But remember without any 'Sunlight And Rain' there won't be any 'RAINBOWS'.
When the trust is broken it can never be the same again.





Don't know any way out? Thinking of going away and trying to get rid from everything? Are you thinking of 'SUICIDE'?
Then just 'STOP THINKING' right away. I just don't know why people think of committing suicide? Do you think that after killing yourself, you'll get rid from everything? If yes then you are the most fool, stupid and dumbest person. Why kill yourself because of those problems right? Family problem? Then try to sort it out, have some chit-chat with your parents or any elders at home. 
Feeling Depressed because nothing is right?
Then don't stay alone, try to hang around with your friends and enjoy as much as you can.
Life has much more to offer you. We don't know what's gonna happen and what's store for us in our future so please don't ruin it.
Break-Up? Why kill yourself for such person who have broken your heart, I know nothings easy and so is 'LOVE', we never are perfect but we are learning to be isn't it? Moving on is not easy but trust me later on you'll be more happy and when you meet the one then you have learnt so much that you will be perfect for your soul mate and slowly times heals up everything. How to spend that time? Focus on yourself because when you are in a relation you forget about yourself and think more about your partner.
You never know when you find your 'ONE' and s/he might be in front of you but maybe you haven't realized it yet. Never change for anyone, let them accept you the way you are and always remember that 
"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY".

If this thing comes up again then think about your parents who were always there for you and will be in future(They are there with us since we were born).Remember how they've raised you and think what will happen to them if you go away from their life and I believe that parents are really important in our life and they can't be compared with anyone :)




Lastly, I thank all those people who ruined up my life, for all those back stabbing, betrayal, heart-break, because without these I wouldn't be who I am today and I never thought I could be this strong. I love those who love me and love more who hates me ;)

If you guys and girls have any questions, want to share any problems, if you think I can help you, need my advice or any suggestions then you can write me at nepz21@gmail.com :)


                                       
    

I love you all......
Shweta Gurung
    XOXOX

Friday, 26 July 2013

Weird,Crazy ,Complicated.....Life OR We ?????

I've been hearing a lot of people saying things about LIFE.......(Including Me)....

Like others even I do complain why my life is like this but not every time.......

Things change and so does people....
Like season feelings changes too.....

We always complain that life is weird, complicated and even crazy at times right?
But sometimes I think Life is just going on, its we who makes it complicated. I know things go crazy at times, you have to face those things which you never expected. Act like you are O.K when inside you are dying every little second but people, life still goes on. You never know the importance of that thing until and unless its gone. Always believe that everything happens for a reason, life may go up and down, but common, that's LIFE!!!!!



We are the one who are making life so complicated, I don't know about others but I always take things seriously and sometimes it just leads to disappointment, hurts like crazy but what to do, sometimes we have to give up and just move on. I've been shouting like crazy that why my life is so complicated all the time, is it really......or am I the one who is making my life so complicated? Is there any fault of mine? Am I really that bad?




I got lots of questions like this going around my mind but I will never get the answer of these questions, so should I just stop to think about it? Till now I've met hell lots of people in my life, some are here with me while some has just gone away. I've been meeting people these days too but this time I seriously don't wanna lose any more people, because I am just so done facing the same thing again and again. But I know I'll be more stronger than before and just move on and go with the flow.




What I have learned today: No matter what happens in life, learn to be more STRONG than before :)

Love 
Shweta Gurung
     XXXXX

Monday, 8 July 2013

Some Incomplete Stories.........

Memories......there are always gonna be with you right?

No matter where you are or what you've become, memories never fade even though that person is no more in your life. Time slips away from your hand, life still goes on and you still gotta be strong and live your life.

 "If life was easy then it wouldn't be worth living for."

I've come across many people in my life, some fake while some are real ones.
Some have just left my hand and now they are walking in different paths while some are still here in my life holding my hand in both thick and thin days/moments.

When I go back to 7,8 years back then I remember a girl who was my class mate, we were best of friends.
We used to roam around at school compound, share our tears and joys :)
Have lunch together, when my old friends had ditched me up for no reason then she was there to hold my hand.[I had some other close ones too but they were in different sections.]We liked each other company, laugh like crazy, return back home together, have the whole conversation whenever we used to meet and while going and coming back to school. I remember those old days back.
But suddenly something happened to her, there was one person who couldn't see our friendship and she ruined it up and since then our friendship wasn't the same again and now we hardly talk to each other.  I later came to know who that person was.

Not only friends but you also meet across so many people n your life, you have that special bond with that particular person. I don't know the feelings of guys haha!!!!! so hence I'll tell about girls, we are really emotional but can be that strong that no one can break us.

So we meet across many people but among them one become our favorite and special person.That person whom we can share our feelings with, laugh around and cry out loud too. Talk around whole day, dance with that person and that person also makes us feel so special that we fly high on the top, think we have found that special someone. The one who is always there at your thick and thin and hold your hands when you're going to fall off.


Hangout with him all the time, share each other joys and sorrows too.
Happy with what you have and you thank God for sending that person in your life. You don't even think of getting separated at all. Life's much more happy now.

But life is weird right? Can't stay happy all the time hence something happens, never expected, you've fly so high that when you suddenly fall you hurt so badly lying on the ground. Now what? yea....what just happened. That special person just leaves your  hand and asks you to go walk in your own path. You just don't know what to do, laugh or cry, think its just a dream but NOOOO!!!!! WAIT.....its not a dream, its the reality. When he gives you so many reasons or one then you are o.k and can move on but there ain't a proper reason then you just drive crazy, you are so happy but when you've just blinked an eye your life has just changed in a second, should I live or die?
NO....not dying but you just die everyday a lil inside as you don't get the proper reasons, so many questions going around your mind.....was that all fake or real?No matter how you are, you still need to get up and walk on and on. Where had you gone wrong? What have you done? Was I that bad?

"Memories never fades even though the feelings fades."

Some incomplete stories you miss it whenever you think of it but always believe that "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND" *sigh*





Thanks for going through it  ^ ^

Monday, 1 July 2013

My Birthday Celebration!!!!!

29th June 2013,


Was all excited, who won't right? I started to get so many calls and messages from my friends since 12:00am. Couldn't sleep then but still managed to some how.
As soon as I opened my eyes my parents wished me "Happy Birthday".

I was kinda empty stomach with one mango haha......almost till 1 or 2 I guess because I couldn't eat anything until and unless Puja was over. They say its good to do Puja on the day you were born.
On this day its not only my birthday, but its my mother, my cousin and some of my friends Birthday too.

Well one of my close friend Namrata came over to visit me, and there she was with some presents for me and my mom. We chatted for a while and then she went back to her office.
On my birthday I had planned to celebrate it with my cousins and few close ones and the day after with my friends but unluckily Namrata couldn't join me another day as she was leaving for Biratnagar.

So I was at Puja, which held at our place till half of the day, my cousins were over at my place and my sweetest niece who just turned 2 came over to visit me. She is the sweetest and cutest girl of my life and she is so attached to me,her name is actually 'Priyanjali' but I just call her either baby or nanu.
She along with her mother(my cousin) and my other sister handed me some cool birthday card with some money inside it......hehe!!!!!













Doing here and there, it was already 5:00pm so went to my room then started to get ready as I definitely gotta take huge time as its my Birthday.
And here was it,that was my look, dressed in the whole new outfit and shoes :)





So I went along with my cousins and some close ones.
We all went to Attic Bar which is located at Lahinchour.




I didn't expected any cake but then there, my sister got me some cake haha....!!!!!!



Then went to the dance floor and danced like CRAZY!!!!!!
I have some pictures but I don't wanna upload it on my blog here haha........,you know dancing pictures are quiet funny :P
Then returned back home, had a great evening, went to bed sadly as my birthday was over but celebration was still on tomorrow....

The Next Day:

Around 12:30pm I along with my
mom went to an NGO named "EDUC-NEPAL", an organization who works for children's and women.
We took them some food and chocolates.
Got back home, went to buy some snacks, mother made some pan cake for us, then my friends were over to my place, I tried calling other friends too but grown ups are we.......they were busy with their own works, but never mind my other friend managed to be at home, I thank my friends Osika for coming over even though she was not feeling well.

This was my outfit of the day,(OOTD)




These were my friends who came over, missed others though.
Abhilasha
Noyang
Osika
Ritambhara( Ritu) And lMe :)





And lastly these were some of my gifts :D




God Bless You All :)

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Wednesday, 22 May 2013

You learn and be strong =]

Life never seems to be the way we want it, but we live it the best way we can.There is no perfect life but we can fill it with perfect moments.

Life is never the same right? It just changes in the blink of an eye.Everyday you have to face new challenges, whether you get victory or not later on you learn a lot from it. New experiences means getting more and learning more. If you do any kinda mistakes then don't worry......don't lose your hope instead learn from them and just move on. You have got enough time to correct your mistakes and work more on it.

Another day passed by, no matter what happened at the end I still SMILE on and be more positive. Whether I had to struggle a lot, had a bad day or the day was awesome.......I learn from them, instead of complaining about every bad stuffs I still smile and try to turn people's sadness into happiness. Because I wanna see that big and bright SMILE in everyone's face.

I know life is full of challenges, but we have to face it no matter how's the results gonna pop out because I believe in learning more and turning more stronger day by day, for some people this blog might be boring right? haha......I know everyone's says life is this and that...but why I am writing this, its because through this I want those people to be more stronger who are going through a very hard time.

Everyday is definitely a new beginning, I trip and fall but I still try to get up on my own when the world is busy with their own works. You born alone and die alone and I guess that's why I'm learning to be on my own, be an independent person and move on in my life. Day passes by on and on and for some its just an ordinary day...work, study, some fun that's it but I believe that we must do and learn from everyday as for me everyday is a new beginning of any kinda stuffs.

When the day ends its not what you did, its more like what did you learn but remember without your actions the results are impossible.
Sometimes my day passes by doing work and shoots stuffs of my program, sometimes hanging out with friends, at times with my family and cousins but at the end of the day.

Every second of every day is a chance to start again.


And what I learned today?

Well Its never too late to grow in LIFE!!!!! =]


There is so much joy, laughter and happiness that life has to give us but it also comes with pain, sadness, heart-break and even anger and frustration but what's important is what we learn from all of our experiences and just be more strong day by day :)




People may try to pull down my legs but I manage to stand up and fight back.....Instead of saying I believe more in showing and proving them :)