As we grow up we learn that relationships are really not easy. Its all about trust, understanding and commitment. The longer the relationship is the more we get attached to someone. I have seen so many people stuck with a person with whom they are not happy just because they have been together since a long time. The fear of being alone or just the fear of losing their partner they decide to stay with the person.
Just because your partner hasn't raised a hand on you doesn't mean that you are not in an abusive relationship. When you are in an abusive relationship it automatically means that you are in a toxic relationship. Before time slips away from your hand one should realize what kind of relationship are you in. Both a guy and a girl can be in an unhealthy relationship. Here are the things which might help you to know whether you are in such relationship.
1. Verbal abuse:
This has to be one of the very unhealthy thing in a relationship. Your partner might use very harsh and abusive words. They sometimes talk to you very badly. They use slang words and insults you in front of other people or at public places.
2. Mental abuse:
This is one of the under rated thing in a relationship. Your mental health is so important that one forget to take care of themselves first. They might be doing things which is effecting your mental health and they don't even care. When you are in a bad relationship you go through anxieties and depression. You won't even know that you have become a victim of.
Now, here are the things which will make very clear that you are in a toxic relationship.
1. Your partner hardly appreciates you.
2. They become jealous of your achievement.
3. They take you for granted.
4. They hardly makes you feel special.
5. They hardly give you any time, nor even a call or messages.
6. They won't let you see their phone.
7. They don't have any pictures of you on their phone nor have shared about you in social media.
8. You have to keep begging for their time.
9. They never surprises you nor tells you how important you are to them.
10. You have hardly gone out on any dates even after staying in a long term relationship.
11. They go days without even calling you and it doesn't even bother them.
12. They feel superior than you.
13. When you start to question yourself, why aren't you enough?
14. They keep asking for time and years passes by but they are still not ready to settle down with you.
15. When there are more tears than joy and laughter.
Just because you are with them since a very long time doesn't mean that you have to stay with them. Partnership means struggling and working together and reaching that goal. They should be the one supporting and cheering you up.
Please do not do such mistake in life, don't settle down for someone just because you have spend a very long time with them.
Know your worth!
Just because your partner hasn't raised a hand on you doesn't mean that you are not in an abusive relationship. When you are in an abusive relationship it automatically means that you are in a toxic relationship. Before time slips away from your hand one should realize what kind of relationship are you in. Both a guy and a girl can be in an unhealthy relationship. Here are the things which might help you to know whether you are in such relationship.
1. Verbal abuse:
This has to be one of the very unhealthy thing in a relationship. Your partner might use very harsh and abusive words. They sometimes talk to you very badly. They use slang words and insults you in front of other people or at public places.
2. Mental abuse:
This is one of the under rated thing in a relationship. Your mental health is so important that one forget to take care of themselves first. They might be doing things which is effecting your mental health and they don't even care. When you are in a bad relationship you go through anxieties and depression. You won't even know that you have become a victim of.
Now, here are the things which will make very clear that you are in a toxic relationship.
1. Your partner hardly appreciates you.
2. They become jealous of your achievement.
3. They take you for granted.
4. They hardly makes you feel special.
5. They hardly give you any time, nor even a call or messages.
6. They won't let you see their phone.
7. They don't have any pictures of you on their phone nor have shared about you in social media.
8. You have to keep begging for their time.
9. They never surprises you nor tells you how important you are to them.
10. You have hardly gone out on any dates even after staying in a long term relationship.
11. They go days without even calling you and it doesn't even bother them.
12. They feel superior than you.
13. When you start to question yourself, why aren't you enough?
14. They keep asking for time and years passes by but they are still not ready to settle down with you.
15. When there are more tears than joy and laughter.
Just because you are with them since a very long time doesn't mean that you have to stay with them. Partnership means struggling and working together and reaching that goal. They should be the one supporting and cheering you up.
Please do not do such mistake in life, don't settle down for someone just because you have spend a very long time with them.
Know your worth!
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